Meet Bindikat

Professional Dominant & Sexuality Expert

Who are you?


Perhaps you're a slave in chains, or maybe you're a servant ready to obey his Queen. Maybe pain is a way for you to tune out the world. Or maybe you prefer more subtle sensations. Perhaps you know exactly what you want - customised experiences like adult baby with intricate needs linked to emotional and sexual development. Maybe you find peace recreating arousal between your strict Head Mistress, and the naughty schoolboy. The options are endless, and sessions are designed for us to explore together.


I'm a dark haired Mistress. Dark by nature, dark by force. I'm explorative, sexy as hell, a little edgy, and sometimes even playful. Time with Me will help you unlock your true nature, discovering what really ignites you. Surrender to Me, and you will find something more sublime that a few minutes of sexual gratification. I am not the chef, and you the consumer. I am here to guide you, to push you. Sometimes to punish and exact revenge, to discipline or encourage you, but always to open you up to a new way of understanding your own sexual self.

I have been exploring the world of sensuality, art, and kink for over ten years. I approach BDSM with both an academic understanding of sexuality, combined with a deep respect for the variety of humans. 


I believe in true Feminine superiority, which means I am not here to service your erotic needs. Those lucky enough to present to Me will find a delicate balance between My true desire, and your ability to consent.​ 


Fetish is not just about the depraved. BDSM is not just about brutality, it's relationships of love and respect. Intimacy and connection are the core elements of all interactions, and I cater for darker taste and fantasies when approached with a foundation of honesty and consideration.